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If a chick cheats on me....it is over FOREVER. NO forgiveness. I've learned the hard way. [/ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] But with my ex-GF it was just closure sex and I zero no desire to see her again... My ex was probably hurt by the blow-off because wanted to get back together... But I didn't care...I loved my GF and she is who I wanted to be with. [/ QUOTE ] Ah, so you're a douchebag. Thanks for clarifying. |
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I don't know about that but I've had a very good time. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
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I would be unable to do this. I think some can...I have no idea how.
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Yes. The idea of monogamy is recent, unnatural, and unsuccessful.
The trick is finding a girl who understands this. Preferably an Anthropology major. =] |
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Yes. The idea of monogamy is recent, unnatural, and unsuccessful. The trick is finding a girl who understands this. Preferably an Anthropology major. =] [/ QUOTE ] No the trick is finding a girl who understand this, but also understands the double standard that it only applies to guys. [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] |
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the banged her best friend post sparked this. I don't understand how people can cheat on there girlfriend/fiance/wife whom they claim to really care about. I mean, how can you look this person in the eye after you have lied and decieved them? All trust is shattered. It's one thing if it is just a sexual relationship with no real feelings involved (though i don't think i would cheat here, dunno really), but if you really care about someone, wouldn't cheating ruin your entire relationship? especially if you haven't told her. [/ QUOTE ] polyamorous relationships exist and are successful. jealousy for the one you love is probably the most difficult to deal with but its very possible...monogomy is one way to live. and within THAT way to live, cheating is unacceptable b/c trust is broken. similarly, in a polyamorous relationship, its the same in that if you have sex or "cheat" in that you gave your word about not having/having sex with somebody and you do it then the trust wihtin THAT relationship is also broken. -Barron PS- for accurate and good discussion of this topic read "The Ethical Slut" |
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polyamorous relationships exist and are successful. jealousy for the one you love is probably the most difficult to deal with but its very possible...monogomy is one way to live. and within THAT way to live, cheating is unacceptable b/c trust is broken.
I think polyamarous relationships are fine. And like you said it is not cheating. I don't think polyamarous relationships apply here because there is no breach of trust or betrayal. |
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"The problem is, you dudes treat the one that you lovin
with the same respect that you treat the one that you humpin" Yes. |
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Yes. Many people do it.
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Open relationship. If you can handle open relationship, this issue becomes moot.
Also, lies of omission are very easy. If you cheated once in a remote town and no one ever finds out, you would be wise to hold your peace. Trust is only shattered if you get caught/give a reason to strongly suspect you. |
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