Someone PLEASE straighten me out...

[Kevin J]

You're 100% right. But good players are able to separate the way "they" think from the way "others" think. For some reason, I've never been able to pull that off and do a good job of that. I don't know why and I'm looking for an answer. This one thing has been a drag on my game since day one. I'll never be a good player until I'm able to solve this problem I have. Maybe I should've posted this in the psyche section.