Two TT Hands (Am I a donkey?)

[La Brujita]

$215 online tourney. 1k plus entries. We are in the money, but just barely.

1. Ten handed, just moved to table. Blinds 400-800 folded to third position who pushes with 6572. Folded to me in the SB holding 12,000. My move? Just moved to table and no big reads. FWIW, dude with 6572 went on to win and I went on to casual alcohol use.

2. Nine handed, blinds 750-1500. I hold tens in the BB with 11.1k. UTG who looks solidish and raises to 4k with 9k behind him. SB with 13k as well before hand calls. My move?

Let's say I decide to flat call (ugg). Flop 2-2-A? I guess I am done with hand right?

I think I hate myself a little bit.