girls are annoying

[Jdanz]

i understand what you're saying, let me turn the question around on you.

If we take the OP at his word, that he believes she is naive about it. Or even knows in sub-conciously but is not actively pursueing it, is it possible that she still cares about the OP more then the calender dude?

If the answer to the previous question is yes, and the OP cares a lot about her, should he immediately pre-emptively dump her?

Hey maybe i'm not right, but i'm pretty sure that's wrong.