girls are annoying

[Shajen]

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We have plans to live together next year when i go to dental school.

Kyle

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You definitely need to get this worked out before you make any long term decisions.

See, here's the thing. If you approach her about this, there's a good chance she'll see you as an over-bearing, over-protective, not very confident boyfriend. She'll start to wonder why she's even with you, etc. It'll be a [censored] mess. And in her mind, it will be your fault.

Reality is, she's in a relationship with you, and she needs to understand that HER actions are causing issues in your relationship. Chances are, she won't though, all she'll see is this "he doesn't trust me" bullshit, when it isn't that, it's that you don't trust the other guy.

[censored] is complicated, all you can do is try to have a reasonable conversation with her and get this stuff worked out. If she won't budge, or gets super angry at you, chances are your relationship is pretty much done anyway. Good luck.