Can you take strippers home?

[Cosimo]

In my state, the majority of the girls that work on the side are on the bottom half of the hot scale. Finding a girl that is both hot AND willing to go home is difficult. If all you're looking for is out-call, I think stripclubs are an inefficient way to do that.

That said...

If a dancer says "I'll make it worth your while," while trying get you to buy a dance, there's a greater chance she works on the side. She might even work from within the club, too. 60/80/100 is the rule, whenever I've seen that a rule exists. The charge here generally includes the songs (dances) around which the event occurs. Be prepared. Disclaimer: I have not personally taken advantage of these opportunities when they presented themselves, tho friends and acquantances have. It comes up often enough, when you find the right girl. To whit:

Tip them on stage. If they're high mileage up there, they're more likely to be high mileage for a dance, and/or work on the side. Stage tipping is also the best value in the club, so it's worth doing. Maybe high mileage isn't directly correlated with side-work, but I think it's easier to find out with these girls. Don't get strung along! Don't meet them (and their three friends with brass knuckles) in the alley! Bring minimal cash!

Find a waitress that looks desperate but not bitchy. Tell her you're looking for a "good dancer" and/or a "bad girl". Hint heavily. Either she'll know what you're asking and you're set, or she'll resist. If she resists, try the next desperate waitress. Beware of those on first-name basis with CPS agents. "Of course I fed him dinner! He had his own bowl of Doritos!"

If you find a dancer you like, you can ask her directly. "You're hot, I'd like to take you home." Giving her a direct compliment like this establishes that she has higher value, which makes it clear what you're asking. Every girl in the club gets asked this enough that you fit right in with 50% of the guys in there. Maybe half the girls have a chip on their shoulder about this. But... she's not going to tell a manager or anything. Really, don't sweat it. Girls get propositioned all the time. They're used to it. A few of them might not like it, but it's definitely 'normal.'

Finally: you could spend a few hundred hours getting good enough at game that you can take the hot ones home with you for free (ie the 'going home' part will be free, but there might have been some investment up-front prior to that). I'm currently working on minimizing up-front investment, starting with waitresses (cuz it's trivially easy to not tip them, ever, and hence remain a "non-customer" in her eyes). Personally, my results have been spotty, and if I was better at this I'd post more.

And since this thread comes up often, I'll post more next time. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]