Abortion = less crime?

Egocide, you keep saying that we should admit that 1.5 million people may be being killed via abortions because life may start at conception. The official doctrine of the Catholic church is that contraception is wrong because you are cutting off a potential life. So I assume that you are going to concede that we may be killing off many more millions than that and that all contraception should be banned. And why should we stop at the Catholic church's line? Why not call it a killing anytime a wife tells her husband that she doesn't want to tonight because she has a headache? That could've become a life, right?

Call me crazy, but since it's impossible to all agree on what the line is, how about letting the person who is the owner of their own body decide.