men complaining about women
I hear a lot of guys complaining about how women act. Once in a while, you'll hear one say something like, "I wish I could just be gay instead. It would probably be easier that way. Women are just so hard to deal with."
In listening to people with various degrees of success in building healthy relationships discuss the frustrations and heartache that comes up, I have learned that the problem is not women.
The problem is our own insecurities, immaturities. Sexual selfishness.
Agree? Disagree? I hope Big Steve, and some women get a chance to respond to this. It was actually a gay man who helped me to see that my problems with women aren't about them, its about me. Because he has the same feelings and ends up acting foolish.
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