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Old 08-03-2005, 01:25 AM
The Stranger The Stranger is offline
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Default Do not open this thread if you don\'t like stupid dating questions. . .

Relevent links:

Chilling vs. Dating
"Now that we're just friends. . .
Another Ex-gf question

This is in regards to the girl who I was hanging out with, made out with a few times, then told me, "Now that we're just friends, I feel like I can tell you this. I love you." If you didn't read the previous threads, the only other major pertinent detail is that we met in Alcoholics Anonymous.

Okay, there was a local AA convention over the weekend, but she couldn't hang out much because her father and her brothers and sisters were visiting from out of town. I was having horrible back pain. We hung out at a few meetings at the convention, we had lunch, and then she had to leave to pick them up at the airport. She was going to come back with her younger sister to the dance that was supposed to start at 9PM on Saturday. She said she was going to call me just before 9 to find out if I was physically up to it. 9:30 rolled around, the dance hadn't started and she didn't call me. I sent her a text message saying, "I'm going home," still expecting her to call me. I live about twenty minutes away from the convention. She didn't call.

I called her Sunday morning, asking, "So, how was the dance." "Oh it was cool blah blah blah" and about two minutes later, "I gotta let you go now, we're all over at Starbucks right now. We're heading up the coast tonight to visit my grandparents. I'll be back Monday late-night, so I'll see you at the meeting on Tuesday."

Well, the rest of the day I was laid up in my room, trying to stretch my back. I texted her Sunday afternoon saying, "I'm really sore. I haven't left my room except to go to the bathroom. I'd really appreciate if you gave me a call, if you get a minute."

Sunday, nothing. Monday, nothing.

Today I came to the conclusion, "Okay, she's blowing me off. It was just a flash in the pan. I give up."

So I went to the Tuesday meeting tonight, waved at her from across the street, and left at the coffee break.

She calls later, saying her and her sister are at Starbuck's and I should come, because her sister really wants to meet me. I said no, because I have to get up early. She says her sister is in town until Sunday, and we should all hang out on Thursday night.

Talk about mixed messages. First it seems like she doesn't want to talk to me, and then not only does she want to hang out with me, but she is telling her family about me and wants me to meet them.

Am I reading into this too deeply, or should I just go with it?
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