Where was the fold?

[Azhrarn]

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In reality, I thought I was beaten on the flop and I knew I was beaten when the turn was raised and called. But at that point I had sufficient odds to hit the set. So blah blah.

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If this was the only reason you called the turn raise, you shouldn't have. You didn't have odds to hit your set, because you can't count the Jd as an out here.

As for the rest, I like the pf cap. I don't like the flop 3-bet. Considering the board and the number of callers, it's best to call the flop raise and reeveluate on the turn. Given the turn card, whether to lead out or check-call is opponent specific. Against an overagressive opponent (one who will raise for you with 99, TT, or overcards with a high single diamond), I like the bet.