Someone please stop me from going mad!!!

[john kane]

righty, is there any sites other than pokerroom.com where you can multi table without the tables your not playing on immediately popping up when its your turn to act??? ive always played pokerroom but at this time of the day (UK mornings) there arent enough players.

if you dont know, please mention those you know you cant:
ive tried and failed on:
party and paradise

is there any way you can change the settings? my screen aint big enough, but anyway to alter it so they dont immediately pop up?

repsonses greatly appreciated