Dating a girl who has a kid.....

[meHIGHyouLOW]

Background: I met this great girl(19years old) about 4 months ago, she is about everything I can wish for: cute, smart, positive, fun etc.. go figure. Certainly seems to be a girl who I wish to spend little longer together with.

Anyway, Im 18 and just found out some great joys, like going to bars hitting girls etc. and other half of me just wants to have fun, I never thought I would be even couple of months with this girl.
What bothers me is that she has a kid, the kid is little over one year old and his dad was some dickhead who dumped the girl whe he heard she is preagnent.
Her parents are very supportive in both terms of money and taking care of the kid, but still im not sure what I want to do. I certainly would like to continue the relationship, but it would be offcourse little more serious when there is also a kid. And would in future naturally limit my chances of "having fun".


Bottom line: I dont wanna be a dick but I still fear little the future, because break ups happen.


Help me! ( or should I write to Dr. Phil [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] )