Ethics question... fire out that extra raise? (crosspost from SSLHE)

[RJT]

The way you played the hand with the lady more or less answers your own question - you did the right thing - for you. Sounds like you know you did the right thing, again for you (not for everyone, there is no absolute right or wrong here).

I think the key to the way you played was that it was only her second hand. You let her off easy - gave her time to do what she came for - entertainment, maybe learn a bit of the game, etc. You could have won more from her that hand and she would have lost her money (assuming she finally did) sooner and a bit more of it to you.

For me, playing at a B & M is not just about the money. If it is ONLY about the money, why not stay home and play? (Disregarding any discussion of where one can make more money.) Don't get me wrong I don't play lightly, but I think I would of done the same. And I am sure by letting her last a bit longer you got some more entertainment for your money.