What is the secret?

[gabyyyyy]

Someone please tell me what the secret is to win a lot on party poker.

This is not a troll or flame post, I sincerely want to know.

How to you guys endure the constant suckouts? I mean say you have AK or AQ you know something decent. A guy with j10 catches two pair to win. From the posts I assume a lot of you do rather well on party poker. So how do you do it? How do you overcome the bad beats, and other frustrating $hit that is part of poker?

Thank you.