Should i continue with online poker career or return to 9-5 job?

[AceHigh]

Are you sure you can get a job at your old salary after being in poker for 18 months? New releases of software usually come out every 18 months or less and it only takes 6 months or so for you to lose some of your technical skills.

Is money that important that you want to be unhappy 8 hours a day?

Suggest to your wife that she get a job. Tell her you will watch the kids when she's at work and play poker at night. That should get her off your back for a while.