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#31
11-21-2005, 11:04 PM
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Re: Sleeping with random girls
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[ QUOTE ] I think there are actually a lot of guys like you. There are a lot unlike you, too, but you're not at all alone. But you probably like to think you're different. [/ QUOTE ]Nah, it's because every time the topic has come up (until now), everyone disagrees with me. [/ QUOTE ]that is because guys think that if they demonstrate that they are "soft" or "pussies" other guys will make fun of them. In regards to your initial post, I agree with you somewhat. Most guys would rather have a girlfriend, or at the very least, know something about the girl first, and I don't mean just A/S/L. One night stands and whores in general are not attractive. Also, what is really the point? Is it worth the risks, both to your health and overall emotional(aka life's) well being. There is plenty of drama and issues that go along with banging random broads. 
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#32
11-21-2005, 11:14 PM
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Re: Sleeping with random girls
I've read this whole thread, there are either
a) a lot of liars trying to look sensitive b) a lof of guys with lack of confidence with women, no game, or realistically have no shot with most girls. c) a lot of guys who live with their parents/roommates d) all of the above e) The upper 1% of sensitive males. Not that a guy who chases this is an admirable trait, but if you live on your own and go out, have no other emotional attachments, (this is important--if there is someone else in you life, whether you are pining for them, or whatever) and enjoy the company of women...there cannot be anything less weird. I'd like to see thes people here in there early 20's, go out in NYC, chat up some girls have one come on to you and actually say... "well, I'm not emotionally invested yet for you to come home and sleep with me, so lets just call it night" It's not going to happen. I've had a girl I just met ask me "when are you going to [censored] me?" and I don't care who you are, if you are drunk and have a bed accessible this girl is coming home with you.
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#35
11-21-2005, 11:23 PM
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[ QUOTE ] Hey Idiot...the guy has morals. [/ QUOTE ] There is nothing immoral about sleeping around. It's just sex. [/ QUOTE ] There's nothing immoral about anything. Except if you have morals.
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#36
11-21-2005, 11:29 PM
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There's nothing immoral about anything. Except if you have morals. [/ QUOTE ] But you're implying that someone who sleeps around has no morals, right? Or a lack of morals? I don't see why this is the case. Because the bible says so?
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#37
11-21-2005, 11:32 PM
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Re: Sleeping with random girls
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[ QUOTE ] There's nothing immoral about anything. Except if you have morals. [/ QUOTE ] But you're implying that someone who sleeps around has no morals, right? Or a lack of morals? I don't see why this is the case. Because the bible says so? [/ QUOTE ] They have a lack of moral that claims sleeping around is wrong. (Like I do for example. I see absolutely nothing wrong with sleeping around.) But I'm not one to tell anyone that my morals are better than theirs. At least as long as they're not hurting anybody.
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#38
11-21-2005, 11:44 PM
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Re: Sleeping with random girls
mor·al
adj. 1) Of or concerned with the judgment of the goodness or badness of human action and character: moral scrutiny; a moral quandary. 2) Teaching or exhibiting goodness or correctness of character and behavior: a moral lesson. 3) Conforming to standards of what is right or just in behavior; virtuous: a moral life. 4) Arising from conscience or the sense of right and wrong: a moral obligation. Anyway, my point is that I don't think you can make a judgement about a person based on their sexual habits, unless they do something really screwed up such as purposely hurt people emotionally or go around infecting people with AIDS or something. There is nothing right/virtuous about not sleeping around, and visa-versa. Edit: So I don't think they "lack a moral." But, um, we agree anyway, so maybe I have no point.
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#39
11-21-2005, 11:56 PM
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This is so true. Nearly all guys who say they don't have one night stands would sleep with a hot random chick if the chick just made the first move. [/ QUOTE ]A hot girl came up to me last night and, after talking to me for a bit, said something along the lines of "You look a lot like my ex-bf. I want to have sex with you." blah blah blah, bit more talking about it, she gives me her number and says she is on her period tonight, but to call her tomorrow night (now) or the day after.
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