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I thought you OOTers might find this interesting.
Quote from a thread in the Psychology forums: [ QUOTE ] I'm a caucasion American in college and my new girlfriend is Japanese -- she's here for college and has been here about 5 years. I made her my girlfriend but neither of us are really sure what that means. Anyway I like her and I'm pretty sure she likes me, but she's very cautious when it comes to relationships. I think this has to do with her being a traditional Japanese girl. So, to make a long story short, she always wants to spend time with me but I can't get physical with her at all. I'm embarrassed to say that after 3 weeks of dating the most I've done was kiss her on the cheek. Am I wrong for wanting too much too soon? The thing is, she is a quality girl and I like that - I could dump her and get a girl who would be easier, but she wouldn't be of the same pedigree. But the problem is I can't let this go on forever and I don't want a platonic relationship. Any general advice or information on Japanese customs would be appreciated. I'll post more details upon request. [/ QUOTE ] Link to the thread. BTW, I'm new here, so if linking to someone else's post in another forum is inappropriate, then I'm sorry and I won't do it again [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]. |
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Tell him to do a google search for "tubgirl" for some clues as to what Japanese girls are into.
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dude, 3 weeks is nothing. why do people think you gotta be banging right away or else you're done for?
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dude, 3 weeks is nothing. why do people think you gotta be banging right away or else you're done for? i need a japanese gf [/ QUOTE ] If a chick won't let you get past a cheek kiss after 3 weeks there is something WRONG. that is not waiting, that is repressing, unnatural. EDIT: It would be different if the feeling was mutual but the physical aspect of a relationship is just as important as the physical, if one partner is not being fulfilled in all the ways they feel they deserve it is not healthy. |
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[ QUOTE ] dude, 3 weeks is nothing. why do people think you gotta be banging right away or else you're done for? i need a japanese gf [/ QUOTE ] If a chick won't let you get past a cheek kiss after 3 weeks there is something WRONG. that is not waiting, that is repressing, unnatural. [/ QUOTE ] It could just as easily be him being afraid to make any other sort of move for fear of offending her or whatever. I think we need more information before we can make that judgment. |
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] dude, 3 weeks is nothing. why do people think you gotta be banging right away or else you're done for? i need a japanese gf [/ QUOTE ] If a chick won't let you get past a cheek kiss after 3 weeks there is something WRONG. that is not waiting, that is repressing, unnatural. [/ QUOTE ] It could just as easily be him being afraid to make any other sort of move for fear of offending her or whatever. I think we need more information before we can make that judgment. [/ QUOTE ] exactly |
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] dude, 3 weeks is nothing. why do people think you gotta be banging right away or else you're done for? i need a japanese gf [/ QUOTE ] If a chick won't let you get past a cheek kiss after 3 weeks there is something WRONG. that is not waiting, that is repressing, unnatural. [/ QUOTE ] It could just as easily be him being afraid to make any other sort of move for fear of offending her or whatever. I think we need more information before we can make that judgment. [/ QUOTE ] This is very true. More info please. Chances are he isn't aggressive/willing-to-walk enough for her to want to want to be kissed. Hopefully he isn't asking for permission. |
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dude, 3 weeks is nothing. why do people think you gotta be banging right away or else you're done for? i need a japanese gf [/ QUOTE ] because we are horny. |
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being one who is living in china, and travelled a little in asia though not specifically in japan. I can tell you, you have to force yourself onto the girl. I brought a girl back every night I was in thailand, but they'd just lie there and giggle and act all prude, you really have to just push yourself onto them. They just don't want to seem like sluts, but they love the cock that's for sure.
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being one who is living in china, and travelled a little in asia though not specifically in japan. I can tell you, you have to force yourself onto the girl. I brought a girl back every night I was in thailand, but they'd just lie there and giggle and act all prude, you really have to just push yourself onto them. They just don't want to seem like sluts, but they love the cock that's for sure. [/ QUOTE ] I love how OOT is completely devoid of feminists. |
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