So how is my play here? my girlfriend says "very stupid".

PITTM · #1 10-04-2005, 06:14 PM

okay, so my relationship with this girl is kinda complicated. we;ve been together for about a month and we broke up on saturday and got back together on sunday. anyways, like 2 months before we started going out she was dating this frat guy(shes in a sorority) who i didnt like very much. she dumped him to date me, this seemed to anger him a bit. he called my cell a few times and sent me mean ims, but he doesnt know what i look like or where i live.

so anyways, today im at school with my headphones on, walking down a path in the middle of the forest. and who do i see but frat guy...walking with some little freshman girl. since we;re on a fairly narrow path, i stay a little closer to the middle of the path than i should and give him a little shoulder, after which he stumbles and almost falls down. but i dont think he knows who i am and i dont think he noticed i did it on purpose, so we both keep walking. when i get home from class theres a message from my gf who is pissed as hell that i "[censored] with him". apparently the girl who he was with is in her sorority and recognized me and told her. did i blow it here? i feel somewhat bad because i caused her some unnecessary drama, but seriously, does anyone pass up this opportunity to just give a little subtle shove or something?

rj

leehrat · #2 10-04-2005, 06:16 PM

depends on your size/weight

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Ogre · #4 10-04-2005, 06:23 PM

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STLantny · #5 10-04-2005, 06:18 PM

If you are going to hit him, hit him. Otherwise dont be passive agressive.

miajag81 · #6 10-04-2005, 06:24 PM

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PITTM · #7 10-04-2005, 06:23 PM

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6' 220. it was kind of a narrow path and we were going to run into each other a bit either way, i just put a little oomph into it. i used to play hockey so the shoulder check comes pretty naturally. ill post the im conversation he and i had for context in a second.

rj

diebitter · #8 10-04-2005, 06:17 PM

You were within your rights, I'd say.

A punch to the back of the head would have been less weak though.

[censored] · #9 10-04-2005, 06:18 PM

I would say you need to listen to your GF more, because as described that was pretty stupid.

If you told me that you walked up to him, told him who you were and asked what his problem was, I'd be ok.

Also just walking past and doing nothing is good too.

Toro · #10 10-04-2005, 06:18 PM

Don't let your girlfriend kid you, girls love this shiit.