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09-28-2005, 02:18 AM
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Getting back with Ex\'s
So I broke up w/me gf of 3 years about 3 months ago mostly because I thought I was unhappy in the relationship and she was very clingy/needy. It was tough to do but I thought it was best at the time.
Recently however, I've found myself thinking more and more about her and her good qualities. When we broke up, she promised things would be different, but I didn't budge...now I'm wondering if that was the best course. If I get back together with her, is the same thing bound to happen? Or have any of you done this and it worked out? No, TTINWWOP, and yeah, I SIIHP, and thanks for the help. ~jack 
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09-28-2005, 02:21 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
you just have to find out for yourself. there's a good chance of it being the same old, but that's not to say it's not worth the risk. go for it.
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09-28-2005, 02:22 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
in my experiences i have found out that there was always a reason i originally broke up with my ex, b/c we weren't compatible.
the reuniting will usually start out ok for a few months and then when her same old habits and ticks kick back into high gear you will hate her again.
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09-28-2005, 02:30 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
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in my experiences i have found out that there was always a reason i originally broke up with my ex, b/c we weren't compatible. the reuniting will usually start out ok for a few months and then when her same old habits and ticks kick back into high gear you will hate her again. [/ QUOTE ] Very true. But sometimes you have to experience it again to have complete closure. It doesn't sound like OP has that. DN
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#7
09-28-2005, 02:40 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
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So I broke up w/me gf about 3 months ago mostly because I thought I was unhappy ... Recently however, I've found myself thinking more and more about her and her good qualities. [/ QUOTE ] Have you been laid since the breakup?
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09-28-2005, 03:08 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
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Have you been laid since the breakup? [/ QUOTE ] An extremely important question. This may explain a lot.
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09-28-2005, 03:26 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
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Have you been well laid since the breakup? [/ QUOTE ] After my high school/early college gf and I broke up, I found myself in the same position as OP. I dated around and got laid plenty...but I kept thinking about my old girlfriend because she was really great in bed (I'm sure part of that was due to the fact that she knew what I liked, etc.). As a result, I hooked up with her for pure ex-sex quite a bit, and even cheated on my next gf over and over whenever she'd come booty-calling. Wasn't until I met my current girlfriend (who I've now been with for over 4 years), who is herself very good in bed, that I stopped wanting to bone the earlier girl. The point is - you need to get laid, and with a girl who's got her [censored] working. Get yourself a hot little freaky girl (even for a night) and you'll forget all about the old girlfriend. Unless you're gettin' all luvvy-duvvy lonely for her (in which case no one here can help you).
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09-28-2005, 03:32 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
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Have you been laid since the breakup? [/ QUOTE ] No, but I don't think this is the reason. [ QUOTE ] Unless you're gettin' all luvvy-duvvy lonely for her (in which case no one here can help you). [/ QUOTE ] I think it's more this one... ~jack
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