Question about ex-gfs

kurosh · #1 05-04-2005, 12:56 AM

Say you've been broken up with your ex for a year or so. You get back together with her. While you guys have been apart, she has had a boyfriend and had regular sex with him. Should this bother you? I think it would bother me quite a bit.

Macdaddy Warsaw · #2 05-04-2005, 12:58 AM

Um...don't get back together in a relationship with your ex-gf. No matter how much you think you love/loved her. Problem solved.

thirddan · #3 05-04-2005, 12:58 AM

it would bother me, but "technically" it shouldn't bother you because you were broken up...

IggyWH · #4 05-04-2005, 12:59 AM

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Should this bother you?

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No...

1)If you do get back with an ex, it should be for ass only. There's a reason you broke up originally.

2)Everyone has a past and if you let that bother you, you'll go through life with dry balls unless you want some chick who just lies there like a fish.

Alobar · #5 05-04-2005, 01:02 AM

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Should this bother you?

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No...

1)If you do get back with an ex, it should be for ass only. There's a reason you broke up originally.

2)Everyone has a past and if you let that bother you, you'll go through life with dry balls unless you want some chick who just lies there like a fish.

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there should be no more posts in this thread. Seriosuly, It gets no better advice wise than this.

PokerFink · #6 05-04-2005, 01:03 AM

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1)If you do get back with an ex, it should be for ass only. There's a reason you broke up originally.

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Generally speaking, this is excellent advice.

kurosh · #7 05-04-2005, 01:07 AM

Why is everyone advising against getting back together with exs?

IggyWH · #8 05-04-2005, 01:08 AM

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Why is everyone advising against getting back together with exs?

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You sound like a broad now...

There's a reason you guys ended it, be a man and stick to your decision.

Ulysses · #9 05-04-2005, 01:13 AM

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There's a reason you guys ended it, be a man and stick to your decision.

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Obviously he didn't make a decision; she dumped him.

PokerFink · #10 05-04-2005, 01:36 AM

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Because it almost always ends in an ugly fashion.

When you break up with someone, it's generally for a reason, and the problems that manifested themselves originally will usually manifest again.

The obvious exception is if a couple breaks up on good terms, due to something like distance, and then they find themselves in a situation where dating becomes plausible again.