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It's been almost 2 years since I have gone "pro" and my parents still don't know. All my friends and siblings know and I trust them to not spill the beans until I give the sign. The problem is, my parents (like most parents) are old-fashioned. They think that the only way to make a living is to get a job. I am afraid that if I tell them, they will both simultaneously have a heart attack. Any tips on how to deal with this dilemma?
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I assume you are successful? Success speaks louder than words sometimes.
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Yes, I am successful. So much so that I quit a good well paying job as an engineer to devote to poker full time. Actually, not full time, because I spend a lot of traveling instead of "working". But still, I am making so much money at poker that I am embarrassed to tell anyone how much I actually make. And don't ask. [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
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the key I would think is showing your parents that what you are doing is stable and safe(financially). If you can do that, coupled with the amount of money you are apparently making, that would seem to look good enough for the 'rents.
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So much so that I quit a good well paying job as an engineer to devote to poker full time. Actually, not full time, because I spend a lot of traveling instead of "working". But still, I am making so much money at poker that I am embarrassed to tell anyone how much I actually make. [/ QUOTE ] If this is true, and you have it documented somewhat, what are you waiting for? If your making soooo much at it, who cares who knows. Time to grow up a bit. b |
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I decided not to tell my Dad that I earn extra money from poker when he made a comment during a broadcast of PTI on ESPN. He asked me why I would watch a show that is just "two heads yelling at each other", and then also said "I'm also tired of all these poker shows and gambling and all that nonsense. It's so stupid." I just kinda nodded and said "Yeah." I was actually considering telling him about my AC and Vegas trips and then I was going to bring up the poker. Guess I won't be doing that.
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FWIW, there's a lot of people on this site who make a lot of money player poker. There's no need to act coy about your results, we've seen it all before. Frankly- sharing how you're actually doing goes a lot to helping folks answer your questions.
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I'm no pro but I as well have parents that want me to find my self a job and not pursue poker as a career. They love it that I have won and continue to win money for the short time i've been playing the game (two years). They don't however believe it to be the best way to make a living for myself. The only way I feel I could one day show them that the game is infact good enough to make a living off is when/if I become a pro poker player that has a sufficient bankroll to justify not having to have worked for several hours in an office.
From what you have told us, you're one of the fortunate to have reched the level/skill taken to be a pro poker player, and if you have made enough money to show your parents that you're infact making a living for yourself playing a game that you love I don't see them getting upset. You have a long future ahead of you and alot of cash to be won, and if you can only show your parents that your skill is above so many others and show them the success you've been having, i'm sure they'll be proud. Hope this helped and good luck [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]. |
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Buy your parents a really nice, really expensive christmas gift. When they ask how you can afford it, tell them you won it all playing poker. It's hard to look a gift horse in the mouth like that.
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Hi Appleliker,
You can't tell them...ever. It seems like they're from the same generation as my parents, where risk-taking is probably frown upon. It is nearly impossible to ever convince them that this is a good idea, it doesn't really matter whether you're struggling or making a killing. I strongly feel that telling them the truth at this point will make all of your lives very difficult. Which in turn may psychologically affect your game, assuming that they will be as upset as you pointed out. As long as you continue to do this, I think you should keep things the way they are. One thing you can do is be disciplined and responsible with your play as well as your finances. I'm sure they are proud that they raised you well. Since you are keeping a huge secret from them, at least give them the respect and be responsible with everything else in your life. Good luck with your career. |
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