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courtesy
my roommate and I had a disagreement recently. I tend to not bother with "please"'s when I'm asking for a favor, or asking him to turn his music down, or asking him to do the dishes. I generally don't see the difference between "dude, I'm trying to sleep" and "dude, I'm trying to sleep, could you please turn your music down?" and the first is a lot easier to say.
however, I (almost) always say thank you when he's done the dishes, or has turned the music down, or has done me a favor. personally I feel like it's less important to be polite in making a request, because it's up to him whether he wants to do the favor or not. once he's done it, of course I'll be grateful. thoughts? apologies if this has been done already. |
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Re: courtesy
I don't say please in these situations either, but only because I want to make it clear I'm not asking.
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Re: courtesy
Always please, always thankyou. Manners maketh the man (er, not you specifically, OP).
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Re: courtesy
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Always please, always thankyou. Manners maketh the man (er, not you specifically, OP). [/ QUOTE ] yeah I dunno, I really disagree with that. just because you spend a little extra breath doesn't make you a more considerate person. and I've also really wanted to change my username for about 470 posts. who do I talk to about that, Mat? |
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Re: courtesy
Ask astroglide or [censored] first, I think.
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Re: courtesy
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[ QUOTE ] Always please, always thankyou. Manners maketh the man (er, not you specifically, OP). [/ QUOTE ] yeah I dunno, I really disagree with that. just because you spend a little extra breath doesn't make you a more considerate person. [/ QUOTE ] Actually, I think it does. |
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Always please, always thankyou. Manners maketh the man (er, not you specifically, OP). [/ QUOTE ] I agree. I'm a huge manners fan. |
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Re: courtesy
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[ QUOTE ] Always please, always thankyou. Manners maketh the man (er, not you specifically, OP). [/ QUOTE ] I agree. I'm a huge manners fan. [/ QUOTE ] Oh, and a firm and sturdy handshake after a BJ. To show the lady the proper level of gratitude. |
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Re: courtesy
If "please" greatly enhances the probability that you get what you have requested, it seems a no-brainer. This doesn't mean it makes sense, but I have discovered that getting what I want is now more important than, the world and other people, making sense.
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Re: courtesy
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If "please" greatly enhances the probability that you get what you have requested, it seems a no-brainer. This doesn't mean it makes sense, but I have discovered that getting what I want is now more important than, the world and other people, making sense. [/ QUOTE ] This is incredible wisdom. man, your thread has elicited the smartest comment in a long time, seriously. |
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