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Got caught in a Lie. Need OOT\'s Help.
Ok so my wife just caught me in a pretty big lie, basically for the last week I have lied to her about how often I have missed class. Now we both work at the same place, on different floors. Needless to say she is pissed and pretty hurt. I feel terrible and don't know what to do. Basically I need ideas about how to make this thing right again.
Figure I could get a few serious responses in with the normal razzing. |
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Re: Got caught in a Lie. Need OOT\'s Help.
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Ok so my wife just caught me in a pretty big lie, basically for the last week I have lied to her about how often I have missed class. Now we both work at the same place, on different floors. Needless to say she is pissed and pretty hurt. I feel terrible and don't know what to do. Basically I need ideas about how to make this thing right again. Figure I could get a few serious responses in with the normal razzing. [/ QUOTE ] Your post is confusing. Please clarify what you did. You lost me "we work on different floors". What does that have to do with anything? |
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Re: Got caught in a Lie. Need OOT\'s Help.
Sorry I meant that we are both at work right now and I bascially when I got here she called me and knew that I had lied about going to class a couple of days and she was really hurt.
Not really sure why I am posting this but I am a complete jackass and I feel like [censored] and need so help on how to make it up to her. |
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Re: Got caught in a Lie. Need OOT\'s Help.
If you felt you needed to lie about skipping a class it will only get worse and you don't love her. Have her take you out to dinner then have a last romp then steal all her silverware and leave.
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Re: Got caught in a Lie. Need OOT\'s Help.
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If you felt you needed to lie... you don't love her. [/ QUOTE ] Wow. A little info on why you lied would be helpful. Was it just like you lied one day, and then the next, and then you had to lie about the next day to keep the first two under wraps, and then it snowballed? Without knowing why you fibbed about something seemingly trivial its hard to help. |
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Re: Got caught in a Lie. Need OOT\'s Help.
Basically I don't know really why I lied. I think I felt like I had to lie because I really didn't want to let her down about not doing my part. (she works so I finish up school).
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Re: Got caught in a Lie. Need OOT\'s Help.
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(she works so I finish up school) [/ QUOTE ] This is what makes the situation [censored]. You need to make it up to her a little at a time, I dont think there is a quick fix for this one. An "I'm sorry" along with flowers is always a good start, I think you should bust your ass this semester and get good grades as a way to make it up to her in the long run. |
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Re: Got caught in a Lie. Need OOT\'s Help.
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[ QUOTE ] (she works so I finish up school) [/ QUOTE ] This is what makes the situation [censored]. You need to make it up to her a little at a time, I dont think there is a quick fix for this one. An "I'm sorry" along with flowers is always a good start, I think you should bust your ass this semester and get good grades as a way to make it up to her in the long run. [/ QUOTE ] Good advice. Thanks. |
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I think you should bust your ass this semester and get good grades as a way to make it up to her in the long run. [/ QUOTE ] Winner. |
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Re: Got caught in a Lie. Need OOT\'s Help.
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Basically I don't know really why I lied. I think I felt like I had to lie because I really didn't want to let her down about not doing my part. (she works so I finish up school). [/ QUOTE ] Telling her exactly this will go a long way. Seriously. Apologize for this as well as the lying. |
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