I'm so confused...

ClaytonN · #1 08-31-2005, 07:30 PM

Say you've hooked up with this girl already who lives in your dorm, but you can tell it's not going to go beyond that, and it will dissolve into a friendship. At the exact same time, you've got 2 other girls that are into you. The problem is, all of the girls are on the conservative side, and you don't know where you stand with the first girl.

Am I bound to box myself into a corner with this one? Should I be honest with each girl and take it one by one, should I play the field (but wait, they're all in my dorm), or should I say fk it for all 3 and either go downtown to find other hopefully non-conservative girls and/or wait when I rush next spring and find sorority girls?

And I swear to buddy christ that this is a legitimate question. I never had to deal with balancing women in high school. AEKDBet has said it's better to deal with this than not get anything, and I agree, but I'm a total rookie with this.

#2 08-31-2005, 07:31 PM

I think you should not rush

ClaytonN · #3 08-31-2005, 07:33 PM

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I could easily just not pledge, but I am definitely rushing to at least have a look.

Boris · #4 08-31-2005, 07:31 PM

maybe those "conservative" girls need some one to unleash their inner freak?

Los Feliz Slim · #5 08-31-2005, 07:33 PM

Don't [censored] where you eat. Don't date/mess around with women in your dorm.

EDIT: And I really tend to think that the fraternity dead horse has been beaten beyond recognition. Let's let it rest for a couple of hours.

ClaytonN · #6 08-31-2005, 07:35 PM

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Don't date/mess around with women in your dorm.

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Does anyone else agree with this?

And yes, Sponger, definitely. I don't want a relationship.

MrWookie47 · #7 08-31-2005, 07:40 PM

Eh, it depends, mostly on your likelihood of seeing any of the girls from day to day. If it's a small dorm and/or they live very close, don't do it. If it's a huge dorm, lots of floors, many different entrances, etc., it's not such a bad plan to date one or more. You may also want to take into account how close the 3 girls are in proximity to each other.

ClaytonN · #8 08-31-2005, 07:43 PM

4 floors, im on 3rd floor, they're on 2nd floor, they're on different parts of the floor, numerous exits.

My obvious fear is coming off as a scumbag if I don't make things clear with girl #1 and I'm with girl #2. My parents were divorced via adultery.

Los Feliz Slim · #9 08-31-2005, 07:51 PM

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4 floors, im on 3rd floor, they're on 2nd floor, they're on different parts of the floor, numerous exits.

My obvious fear is coming off as a scumbag if I don't make things clear with girl #1 and I'm with girl #2. My parents were divorced via adultery.

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I dated a woman in my dorm back in school. She broke up with me and began a habit of making out with random guys in front of our dorm weekly. It was magnificent.

Running into her when bringing other women back was also a hoot.

LethalRose · #10 08-31-2005, 07:43 PM

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Don't date/mess around with women in your dorm.

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I don't want a relationship.

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drop the conservative girls and find a few more sex crazed girls, they're more fun/funny to be around anyway.

If you're looking for a real, meaningful relationship make a decision and do it quick.