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10-21-2005, 12:07 PM
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So who\'s had this scenario before?
This is a first for me, so what's my line?
Meet a girl, feel a really strong connection. We go out for a week. Difference is, I really like this chick, moreso than any other girl I've dated. Today she tells me she doesn't want to give up on the "open relationship" she has with another guy on the west coast. Just a reminder, I live in GA. And she's meeting this guy over thanksgiving break. She says they're best friends but had rough patches in dating, and seperated before college on the whole "let's see what happens" deal. And now she doesn't want to get involved with anyone until they meet again and see what happens. So I've basically been demoted to friend status, which would normally suck balls but I still like her enough as a friend to give a damn. What am I supposed to do? I want to give the idea that I will still be around if things dont work between her and the other guy, but at the same time that means being friends with a chick for a month after dating her for a week. So confused... 
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10-21-2005, 12:08 PM
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Re: So who\'s had this scenario before?
I'm pretty sure this should be a PM to Dr. Dom.
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#3
10-21-2005, 12:08 PM
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Re: So who\'s had this scenario before?
Don't be that guy. Just accept it is what it is. And try to limit the amount of time you hang out with her while you still dig her.
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#4
10-21-2005, 12:12 PM
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Re: So who\'s had this scenario before?
I think you should keep trying to hook up with her. And then back off when he is there. There is no point in being just friends with her. Nice guys never win and he isnt there. I hate to be the bearor but the chances look bad so expect to lose here more times than not. Thats why i say go out swinging...
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#6
10-21-2005, 12:12 PM
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Re: So who\'s had this scenario before?
Ah freshman year. Just relax and enjoy yourself, son.
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#7
10-21-2005, 12:14 PM
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Re: So who\'s had this scenario before?
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I think you should keep trying to hook up with her. [/ QUOTE ] And exactly how am I suppose to do that? She just told me today she doesn't want to get involved with anyone until she meets across-country-boy
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#9
10-21-2005, 12:15 PM
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Re: So who\'s had this scenario before?
play hard to get, and let her know you ain't down with the friend tip.
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10-21-2005, 12:16 PM
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Re: So who\'s had this scenario before?
forget about it, then call her up in december when it doesn't work out between her and her long distance high school boyfriend.
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