Creepy or Flattering?

scotty34 · #1 05-21-2005, 06:01 PM

Last night, some buddies and I are out camping, having some drinks and a great time. One of my buddies starts talking about back when he used to work in the bush. One of the comments he made was about being in camp, when a girl would drive up with a truckload of food and supplies. He said you would have to "save that one for your spankbank" because for all you know, that will be the last girl you see for a month.

We all thought this was hilarious, and got a good laugh, and actually quite a conversation about it. I ended up thinking about that topic for a while longer, and this came across my mind. Would a girl be really creeped out or would she be flattered if she found out a guy was picturing her while masturbating? This applies to all girls, such as friends, coworkers, etc. not just a random one that the person does not actually know. Would it depend on whether the girl is attracted to the guy or not? Its obvious that girls would be creeped out if a guy was actually watching her while he masturbated, but if he simply chose to envision her, is there any harm?

I know if I found out a girl was picturing me while she masturbated, I would be quite flattered. Even if I was not attracted to this girl whatsoever. She could have any man in the world that night, and it was me that she chose for her fantasies. That is definetly something to feel flattered about. Now I realize this probably doesn't happen, as from what I know, girls are usually far focused on the visual aspect when they masturbate, and prefer romantic thoughts. That is how I would feel about it however.

Also, do you think that most girls realize that this happens, or are they pretty clueless about that?

shant · #2 05-21-2005, 06:02 PM

I'm sure most girls know guys do this, and I think the majority will think it's creepy, regardless of if they are attracted to the guy or not.

jakethebake · #3 05-21-2005, 06:03 PM

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I'm sure they choose to pretend they don't know about it.

daryn · #4 05-21-2005, 06:05 PM

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I'm sure most girls know guys do this, and I think the majority will think it's creepy, regardless of if they are attracted to the guy or not.

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I'm sure they choose to pretend they don't know about it.

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just like us and women going to the bathroom

CardSharpCook · #5 05-21-2005, 06:06 PM

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I'm sure most girls know guys do this, and I think the majority will think it's creepy, regardless of if they are attracted to the guy or not.

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I'm sure they choose to pretend they don't know about it.

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just like us and women going to the bathroom

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LOL. It's funny 'cause it's true.

scotty34 · #6 05-21-2005, 06:07 PM

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I'm sure most girls know guys do this, and I think the majority will think it's creepy, regardless of if they are attracted to the guy or not.

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I'm sure they choose to pretend they don't know about it.

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just like us and women going to the bathroom

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I know they pee, but as far as I'm concerned they don't take dumps. Or audibly fart.

peachy · #7 05-21-2005, 06:06 PM

well it depends on the guy...how he got the picture..etc, etc.

If it was someone i barely knew who stole a picture of me id be freaked out...if its my bf/ex/guy friend who i gave sexy or nude pictures to that would be different

in the watching sense...again if its someone i barely know thats freaky then im freaked out...if its someone close to me or a bf i wouldnt be - or id start playin with myself for them etc....just depends on the guy

shant · #8 05-21-2005, 06:07 PM

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well it depends on the guy...how he got the picture..etc, etc.

If it was someone i barely knew who stole a picture of me id be freaked out...if its my bf/ex/guy friend who i gave sexy or nude pictures to that would be different

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He's talking about mental imagery here, not physical pictures.

peachy · #9 05-21-2005, 06:11 PM

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well it depends on the guy...how he got the picture..etc, etc.

If it was someone i barely knew who stole a picture of me id be freaked out...if its my bf/ex/guy friend who i gave sexy or nude pictures to that would be different

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He's talking about mental imagery here, not physical pictures.

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i know...but i was using it more in the sense that they had seen pictures/videos of me naked/nude - it came off wrong using it in the 2nd group and not explaining it in the 1st group

thatpfunk · #10 05-21-2005, 06:11 PM

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i know...but i was using it more in the sense that they had seen pictures/videos of me naked/nude - it came off wrong using it in the 2nd group and not explaining it in the 1st group

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No, just complete imagination.