Don't Understand a Girl

shakingspear · #1 06-16-2005, 01:03 PM

So I met this girl, and we get along really well. There's a definite connection that we both feel and have talked about. I told her that I'd like to be more than just friends, and she said she doesn't want anything like that because she's only 6 months out of a bad relationship, but she likes hooking up and thinks we should be friends plus the extra stuff. I said I didn't think I could separate my feelings from that. She got mad. Later she said I'm right and that hooking up as friends is a bad idea.

I know she's into me, but is unsure about what she wants. Is there any type of move I can make here? Or am I doomed to just hoping something more could come out of it?

jakethebake · #2 06-16-2005, 01:07 PM

You're the biggest dumbass I ever heard of.

klagett · #3 06-16-2005, 01:07 PM

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shakingspear · #4 06-16-2005, 01:08 PM

You have no idea.

steelcmg · #5 06-16-2005, 01:09 PM

Just stick it in her pooper and let it be done

Dominic · #6 06-16-2005, 01:10 PM

sorry, but you turned her down when she offered sex with no strings?

That's just incredibly pussy-like.

If you really want to start a relationship with her, you have to STOP being her friend. Seriously. Tell her that because you're interested in her romantically, you can't just be her friend - and then back it up. Stop calling her, stop emailing her, etc.

If she really is into you, you'd be surprised how well this will work. If she's not into you, then you haven't lost a thing.

jakethebake · #7 06-16-2005, 01:12 PM

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sorry, but you turned her down when she offered sex with no strings?.... If she's not into you, then you haven't lost a thing.

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...except no-strings fuc[/b]kbuddy sex, which is probably actually the best kind.

swede123 · #8 06-16-2005, 01:13 PM

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...but she likes hooking up and thinks we should be friends plus the extra stuff. I said I didn't think I could separate my feelings from that.

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MUAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAH.

Dumbass of the year, no contest.

Swede

blaze666 · #9 06-16-2005, 01:14 PM

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very nice comment jake, your parents would be proud.

wh1t3bread · #10 06-16-2005, 01:14 PM

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I said I didn't think I could separate my feelings from that.

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First of all. I am surprised that you don't understand women because saying something like that makes me think that you are one. I kid. I kid.

Second of all this is a horrible place to ask for girl advice. Most people on this board, like Tyler Durden for example, NEVER get laid and can't give good advice.

Third of all if I were you I would stop all contact with this chick. This will accomplish 1 of 2 things. 1 - she will realize what she is missing out on and she will want to be more than friends. 2 - she won't come running back and you can call up her best friend or her hot younger sister.