Re: Girl Dilemma
Dude,
You must understand the phenomenon of Russian women trying to hook up with any half-decent western guy they can find. Type "russian brides" into Google and see what comes up. Read some of the intro material on the sites and think deeply about why those sites exist in such great number. You MUST have 100% understanding of this issue before making a decision.
In a nutshell, you are being deceived. The girl wants out of her hellhole country and you are her ticket. Right now your foreign nationality is the main thing she likes. That being said, she may still fall in love with you and make a good wife, but you will have plenty of similar opportunities later if you're willing to make similar trips. No point rushing things at such a young age. Your personality will change a lot in the next 10 years and so will your values and outlook on life. Getting involved this early in a long-term relationship is very risky indeed. You will still be able to get a hot russian 20 year-old when you're 40. Therefore,
Strong recommendation: fool around with her, have fun with her, but DON'T marry her or make any other type of long-term commitments at this stage. You must be strong because she desperately wants those things and will use all of her womanly prowess to try to get them.
Good luck in any case.
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