I was pretty upset at the dealer, the only reason he grabbed her hand is because the way she was holding it, he could see it (I think he was so surprised she mucked that he lost it).

I dunno, I shrugged and took the pot. This actually happened a couple years ago, but I got into an argument with some friends about what I should have done. I said according to the rules, I keep the pot, they said I was being a dick, stealing from old drunk women.