[eviljeff]

first off, I think you've gotten a lot of harsh responses from OOT (not unexpected) and you're handling it well.

I'd suggest you quit playing her game if you're getting emotionally involved. sounds like you're just one her boy toys and she likes attention. honestly I'd write her off. even if you do end up dating her, with the way she's acting now it will likely end badly quickly unless you're willing to put up with a loooooot of [censored].