[tonypaladino]

Some of you know the situation I was in with my ex. We were together for 4 years and lived together for 2. I broke up with her rather abruptly (to her) in February, but we kinda remained close until April.

We've been continuously moving further and further apart. Before today I hadn't spoken to her in at least 3 or 4 weeks (whenever my faking an orgasim post was).

Here's the thing. She had a situation with her parents that caused her to leave home at 17, right before we started going out. She has no contact with any family members at all. She has no permanent home. She is living in NYU housing and has a bunch of crap in my basement and closet.

I found out today that she will be all alone for Thanksgiving. She was invited to an old boyfriends house, and I encouraged her to go, but she insisted she doesn't want to. She says she wants to spend it with my family, but won't since she knows I don't want her here.

Truthfully, I don't want her here and I think she gathered that from our conversation today. But I also told her I didn't want her to be by herself, and if she wouldn't go to Jeff's house she should come here. What should I do???

I'm sure a similar situation will come up christmastime too.

I really do feel terible that she'll be alone. Help me OOT.