1) You could go the headphones route.

2) You could grab some of your old ladies blush and put it on your lobes so they always have a redish tint.

3) Keep in mind that the guy might be messin with you. I tell people about there tells that don't exsist just to drive them nuts, or to pick up opposite tells. Maybe ask a (friend) player to observe you to see if it's even real.