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I've never hooked up with a married woman.

But, to everyone who says that if you do that you're ruining a marraige...

don't you think the marraige was in trouble in the first place if she's gonna cheat on you, especially with some 18 year old dude she just met? I never liked the "homewrecker" label, cause it does in fact take two to tango. now that doesn't make anyone less wrong, but let's not give the 3rd party all the blame here.

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The blame would lay squarely on the wife's shoulders. No question. If somebody wants another guy, fine. Leave, then help yourself.

As for the guy, if he knows she's married (ESPECIALLY if they have kids), then he's a dick. Bottom line.

But the wife's still mainly to blame.