[hmkpoker]

I don't know about the insecurity and depression, you may be right about that, I don't know. I know rape was something that occurred frequently in the middle ages (one of our D&D geeks was a medieval studies major). Basically all that matters is that these people live a poorer quality of life than we do.

So the question, simplified, is "should we help others who don't want to be helped, even if their desire not to be helped stems from not knowing any differently?"