I didn't mean that I scored on my first date all the time just by spending money. It takes usually at least several. Your questions are


1. You pay a lot of money on an evening and sex occurs.


I feel good about it.


2. You pay a lot of money and take a "cold shower"


In this case I feel good mostly. I go out with women who I enjoy being with.


3. You dont pay a lot of money and sex occurs.


A rarity. Hopefully good.


4. You dont pay a lot of and take a "cold shower"


Usually good.


A chauvinist pig is probably what everyone thinks but why would I want to date someone that I didn't think was sexy? The thing that's bothersome to me is the part where it seems that I have to spend money over time to get in the sack. I mean if I spend money over time and it doesn't work out that isn't bad really because I've had a good time most of the time. Almost every women I meet seems to want a meaningful relationship but from what I've seen it won't happen if I come across as a cheapskate.