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Yes I have told her. I also told her my relationship with my girlfriend is on the rocks.

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I can't believe you're able to deceive yourself so completely that you can also honestly state, "I have no intention of pursuing a relationship with this girl."

Why didn't you just title the post, "Should I break up with my girlfriend, or just cheat on her?"

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Sounds like something Noam Chomsky would do. It also sounds like you've already made up your agenda for this little coffee DATE (meet this awesome girl on the down low, if things go well dump your current GF...if not, "no harm done.") Is your current relationship truly "on the rocks?" If not, it will be when she finds out what you're doing. GL

ScottieK