Re: Confidence, define it and how does one get it.
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Confidence internal peace where you no longer hate yourself, nor are you frustrated with yourself. You finally stop wondering how you’re coming across to others or if everyone in the room is watching you. You sincerely find value in getting to know others but not on a superficial level. You learn to laugh at your own looks and character flaws.
How to get it? It’s a process that has to evolve. If you’re shy or unsure of yourself around girls it’s not going to just happen overnight. Stop being paranoid. You are incredibly important and unique and there will be more than one girl out there who will be thrilled to have you enter her life, you just have to relax and start chatting them up. The key is to make the effort to talk to as many girls as you can. Ask them about themselves. A great sense of humor is a bonus.
Like the others said: Find a few things you are really good at that make you happy, whether it’s learning to play the guitar, basketball, video games, whatever. Remind yourself over and over to put your life in perspective. (See News, Views, and Gossip if you want something that will put your troubles into perspective.) Life can be a kick in the butt but it can also be very rewarding if you humble yourself.
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