This is a funny topic.

I have a history of dating women who intimidate a lot of men, for a variety of reasons (looks, height, career, attitude). I tend to be attracted to outgoing women who stand out in a crowd.

Thinking about it now, none of these women were the "top" in our relationship - their love life was the one area where they wanted to feel feminine and sheltered.

I call BS on a lot of the "feminazi" crap - every single woman I've ever been with has looked to me to sack up and be the frickin' man. If there is a problem in our society, I think the problem may actually be with the men, not the women: our society doesn't reward backbone enough, so not enough guys develop one.