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What I really want to find is a strong woman who doesn't find the need to proove herself. Someone who is comfortable enough in their own skin to be able to accept someone else in their life.

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This is what most guys thinking with their "big heads" (great post cincy) want. We see passion, ambition, intellect, and drive as very attractive... but when these things are all a ploy, or are a facade put there to hide the truth, the woman is sliding down a slippery slope.