[jaydub]

Yako,

The biggest mistake I see is doing an entire weekend together right off the bat. Better would be to come Saturday and leave Sunday. Too much at once can be a problem and even in relationships, weekend trips are best saved for a while.

As for what to do now. Do not pressure / beg her into coming down to visit. Just say you need to know so you can plan your weekend accordingly which should be true by the way. If she doesn't come down, it might be worth teasing her about it online. That depends on the dynamics of your situation. Also, keep trying to meet people, myspace, out on the street, mickey d's, wherever.

J