[tdarko]

my thoughts are along the lines of yours, in my post i figured i would try to state both sides fairly.

i hate seeing him suffer and i always thought the way he lived was cruel in some way. what made me think in another direction was my mother, she basically just said its easy to say you would rather die when you aren't the one facing death and leaving a women you have sat next to for over 6 decades. she made a point that different people react differently to death and you can never just say, "if i am ever like that just pull the plug on me." i thought it was interesting though i don't necessarily agree.

its one of those tough situations b/c you don't want someone to die but you don't want someone to suffer. i choose death (i guess) since life for the particular person has been fullfilling.