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this was quite long and the replies even longer so i skipped a bunch of them.

first of all, dude, Jane has commitment issues, depressed, needy, and generally insecure. so you go to lunch and flirt with another girl. good move. i am not saying you should not see Sara, but you gotta know how your gf is going to react. btw, if Jane slashes your tires, you'll understand why it's -EV on your part. if she hangs herself, i expect a nicely written "dick move" post.

secondly, in terms of hotness you'll be good to have either of them. you clearly want to spend time with Sara. you've got to have the ass you haven't had yet, so go with that. i fail to see how "everyone think sara is a bitch, but jane is a sweetheart" should influence your decision.