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you're a tool-- your girlfriend got violated and you are blaming her for it instead of supporting her. kill yourself.

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I would not be pissed, but more concerned that she chose not to do something about the situation after the fact. I understand the mentality that girls who were/raped etc sometimes feel guilty, but I think you need to get it into her head that she can not let things like this happen w/o repercussions to the scum who did it.