Re: Brain or Bimbo
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I can teach the dumb girl things. And she'll still be hot.
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But what about having someone who actually stimulates you intellectually?
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You know what? I've found any girl who does that just likes to argue. I'm 42. I've had my share of "hot girls" and my share of "intellectually stimulating" girls.
I like teaching and showing a girl new things she hasn't experienced before - travel, film, restaurants, etc.
If I want stimulating conversation, I'll talk to my friends, go online, turn on C-SPAN. What I want from my girlfriend is companionship, love and attention, laughter, and lots and lots of sex. I don't need to argue with her. I don't need to have "stimulating, intellectual conversation" with her.
It's not insecurity, it's not a lack of "depth." It's sheer exhaustion. Period. I'm tired of arguing about every little thing.
As long as she's not a blithering idiot, as long as she's open to experiencing new things and trying new experiences - and be graetful to me for showing them to her - I'm happy.
That's why I go with the "hot chick."
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