Is this a dick move?
So I've been seeing this girl, 'Jen' for about a month. Couple times a week. We haven't been on a date, just fbuddys. She sleeps over during the week sometimes, and we go to the same parties on weekends and hookup afterwards sometimes. The words girlfriend and exclusive have never come up, but I did tell her I wasn't seeing anyone else (and she said likewise).
In any event, winter break is coming up, and I'm going to vegas for two weeks. I'll be 21 (see loc.), barhopping, and it will be difficult for me to turn down some vegas booty. I won't see Jen for the duration of winter break.
Now, I'm going to ask Jen to be my girlfriend, and I'm fairly certain she would go for that. So, would it be a dick move to wait until after winter break to do this? For the sole purpose that I could get some in vegas.
Also, if I were to ask her before break, I would not cheat on her in Vegas. And if I did wait until after break and did hook up with someone in vegas, I would obviously not tell her, as it would accomplish nothing.
And, yeah, I know this is worthless without pics. Sorry.
So...
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