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The only thing that bugs me a bit is that she talks to him sometimes when i want to hang out. But, I don't let it show and I go off and do work or something.
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Until this sentence I was split 50-50, but this sentence seals it - you're in massive denial. The only way you know how to keep up your relationship is to commit yourself to total servitude.
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