You say that you've gotten over the fact that you're interested in her and all...

So why are you friends with her? While there are some exceptions, I find that "female friends" for males are really just guys waiting in the brush. No matter what you say, I bet you are attracted to this girl. If you were at one time, you probably still are. Otherwise, why waste your time trying to be Dr. Phil?

For me, I don't find that I have enough common interests with women to be just friends. Guys can be my friends; women I can date. There's just no point. Male and female brains are just so different...