[LearnedfromTV]

Harv's post is good. The thing most guys don't seem to be getting in these threads is that the main reason to man up and get it over with one way or another is that no woman is going to respect a guy who wastes a lot of time pretending, because it shows that you don't have anything better to do with your time. It isn't that women like a-holes, it's that they like guys who have interesting enough lives that they don't have time to waste bsing.