[Los Feliz Slim]

I had the same experience. The presence of my "daughter" so close to our business also had a psychological effect on my libido, I think.

However, it IS important that you give your wife some physical intimacy. She's going to be very fragile emotionally as she gets bigger and bigger. Even if you're just messing around, even if YOU don't want to, it's +EV in terms of the crap it'll save you.

Also, remember this: it's going to be a while AFTER the birth before she CAN have sex, let alone want to. So, if you don't do it now, you're looking at up to seven months or so with no nookie, which does strange things to a man's brain.