[astroglide]

the kinds of opportunities that come up at drunken parties don't come around as often in everyday sober situations. this might be a factor in your assertion that you "never wanted to cheat." it's not about wanting to cheat anyway, it's about wanting to bang people.

i want to bang people too. i also want money, but getting drunk wouldn't suddenly make me willing to steal it. getting drunk is about as likely to make me steal as it is to make me eat a live octopus. if i did either of those things it would mean that on some level i either thought it was a fair idea, or that the reward was worth the risk. i don't have to exercise restraint to not steal. i don't have to really exercise restraint to not cheat either, but that's just because of how i see it. many people don't, and that's fine. i can certainly understand how it's not as clear cut as theft. that's the reason though, not drinking.